I use Thayers witch hazel, an aftershave balm and to finish Nivea Hydro gel moisture.
I rate Nivea ASB and used it for years. Like yourself, since moving to DE shaving I've been trying different brands and products.
The best aftershave balms I've tried are Dove sensitive and Myrsol emulsion.
I've also tried aftershaves for the first time in decades and really like the face feel afterwards. My favorite is Fine's Platinum.
OK now on to moisturisers (got there in the end).
I've tried a few moisturising creams but always found them too be greasy.
Last year someone bought me the Nivea Hydro Gel and I loved it. It absorbs into the skin and doesn't leave your skin feeling greasy or sticky. Well worth trying plus it lasts ages as you don't need to used very much.
Here's a link:
http://m.boots.com/h5/cat_hub?unCountry=uk&path=/en/NIVEA-MEN-Sensitive-Hydro-gel-50ml_1190156/