I don't go looking for this stuff locally. Everything I is purchase online. I'm not that into DE gear even though I do enjoy DE shaving. I'm not a collector. I had 5 DE razors and once I found that I liked the Gillette Old style Open Comb, I sold (on Ebay) the rest.
One inexpensive boar brush is all I have and I'm not interested in more brushes. I do like some variety in soaps and cremes but nothing fancy there either (TOBS, Stirling, Prorase and Cella).
As far as the gear is concerned I'm more interested in straights. I shave with straights far less than with DE's however. All the straights I currently use (6) are inexpensive vintage straights from Ebay.
All the DE's and straights that I wasn't interested in and wasn't using I sold on Ebay and used the proceeds to buy more soap and creme. I have enough supplies (blades, soap, creme) to last about 1 1/2 years.
I'm pretty much just into using what I have now rather than acquiring more. If I need to look at something on Ebay I look at inexpensive vintage straights 6/8" round tips with non-black scales. If I buy too much I sell something as I'm really not into having a "collection".
I guess I'm still addicted in the sense that I'm spending more than I would with canned shaving cream and two bladed cartridges (which was cheap as well) but more was spent in the early stages when I was trying to figure out what I wanted/liked.
Hones for the straight razors were purchased but even those were inexpensive.
So, even though I may have spent as much as you guys, I'm not as addicted!